Emotional Maturity Slumdog Millionaire

Published on March 26th, 2011 | by Olumide


A Story About Shit

Hi, everyone. It’s been a while since I posted last. Hope you missed me?

I picked up the movie ‘Slumdog Millionaire’ and watched it yet again. A particular scene caught my attention. It was of little Jamal (the hero of the story) passing excreta in a pit toilet which happened to be his elder brother’s source of income;  the elder brother (Salim) was paid by customers per use of the toilet. As Jamal was easing himself on this occassion, a client came who was very hard pressed. Unfortunately, it was at this time that Jamal decide that he needed the solitude of the toilet and therefore he refused to be hurried out of it. The client left angrilly and Salim lost the money he would have been paid.

Naturally, he was mad at Jamal. Fortunately for him, the helicopter of Amitabh Bashan (a famous Indain actor) passed by at that same time. Salim quickly thought of a way to punish Jamal: He simply locked up the toilet from the outer side so that Jamal could not get out. Just as he (Salim) had envisaged, as soon as Jamal knew that Amitabh was passing by,  his flow of faeces ceased miraculously. He quickly wore his shorts and attempted to get out because (just like other kids and even adults), he badly wanted to have an autograph. It was when he tried opening the door that he discovered that Salim had locked him in and gone away. He was trapped and desperate!

So what did Jamal do? He thought fast! He realized that there was only one way to get out of the toilet on time to meet Amitabh. Although the way was not very appealing, his excitement at the prospect of meeting the famous actor got the better of him and he did what he had to do: he covered his nose and jumped right into the pit! He then climed out from underneath the wood enclosing the toilet. As you can imagine, he was completely covered- with shit! But he didn’t mind. With all excitement, he ran towards the famous actor.

As you would expect with an actor of such influence, there was a huge crowd struggling to touch him and if possible, get his autograph. The police were having a bad time trying frantically to control the surge of the crowd. They surrounded the actor and made it impossible for anyone (including Salim) to access him. But out of nowhere, a small boy covered with shit made his way towards the actor.

Nobody thought of stopping Jamal- they just wanted to get out of his way as quickly as they could for the odour was… you can imagine. Jamal had a smooth, uninterrupted walk to Amitabh. And within a matter of seconds, he had obtained his precious autograph :)

Why did I tell you this story? To show you three things:

First, sometimes you have to be desperate enough to throw caution to the wind if you want to achieve success. You may have to leave a job to get financially free. You may have to break up with that guy every other person wants to have in order to find true love.  You may have to abandon your presitgious medical career and become a school teacher to find fulfillment.

Secondly, if life has given you a big bowl of shit (or better still, if you are completely immersed in shit) and it seems there is no way out, if everyone is running away from you because you stink (of poverty, failure, a bad job…), just remember that the road is also being cleared for you to get to your goal. You can choose to get discouraged and quit or you can make the shit your motivation and stepping stone. Let the stink of the shit clear the way for you!

Finally, Jamal got to Amitabh because he wasn’t really conscious of the people around him. He didn’t notice that they were turning their noses and moving away from him. Perhaps if he had, he would have gone to hide. In the first case, he could jump into the pit because there was just one thing on his mind- Amitabh! In other words, he had a goal and he was focused on his goal. The Bible describes Jesus with the words, ‘who for the joy set before him endured the cross, despising the shame…’He could face humiliation because there was just one thing set before him: the eventual joy he would get. The best way to motivate yourself is to know where you are going and keep that picture in front of you. See yourself getting there. Replay that picture you see in your mind every single day. You can endure any hardship, face any circumstances as long as you know where you are going.

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6 Responses to A Story About Shit

  1. Adlabs says:

    Wow! Dts all i can say. Stil not surprised though.i learnt a beta way 2 watch my movies frm u bak then on campus. Ive watched n analysd dis particular movie more dn 2ce bt ………..dt dimensn u came frm,i must confess neva realy meant anything.

  2. Adlabs says:

    Wow!dts all i can say,though im not surprised.i learnt a new way 2 watch my movies frm u bak on campus. Though ive watched n analysed ds movie 2ce, dt angle u tuk urs frm neva meant much 2 me.gues dts y ure my boss.

  3. Seye says:

    Thumbs up!

  4. Temi says:

    I love your analysis. Nice one.

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